“there is no transformation without discomfort and disruption.”

- Francesca Walker, LMHC-D, NCC

Therapy Services

The Careful confrontation™Method

Careful Confrontation™ is what happens when your defensive coping mechanisms kick in during a session. When you tell me the worst thing that ever happened to you in the voice of someone reading a weather report, I will stop you and name it. When you pretend not to know what we both know you already know, we will sit in that uncomfortable silence together.

It is important that you understand what this is. I am not confronting you. I am confronting what was done to you and I am doing it while sitting next to you, not across from you. I will not abandon you and I will not allow you to abandon yourself. Compassion is why I do it. Confrontation is the form it takes.

Radical Pause

The practice of noticing the moment before you act, before the money is sent, the call is answered, the guilt is soothed, and choosing what happens next instead of defaulting to what has always happened.

Radical Presence

The practice of staying in a hard moment, your mother's disappointment, her silence, her story of what she sacrificed, instead of immediately fixing it or funding it.

Radical Possibility

The practice of building a sovereign life, rooted in aligned personal agency. Whether your goal is connection with boundaries or disconnection without shame, you will leave our work making a purposeful choice about your investment in your relationship with your mother.

My clinical approach draws on Internal Family Systems, Narrative Therapy, and Liberation Psychology, integrated with Womanist theology. In practice, that means we work with the part of you that still tries to parent your mother, rewrite the story that says you owe her, and hold your healing inside the fuller context of what it costs a Black daughter to be endlessly capable.

  • "Trauma is an experience of fragmentation. Healing is a process of integration."

    - Francesca Walker,LMHC-D,NCC